I'm kind of scared to jump into the conversation, considering how vicious it was starting to get

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I don't mind Windows Classic. I'm using it right now. However, it is my opinion we should have something more modern, since most users, especially younger ones, aren't going to be familiar with the Windows Classic interface. My nephews, who are growing up using Windows XP, probably look at Windows Classic like I look at the old Windows 3.11 interface: very, very old. We have to develop ReactOS with the consideration that most new computer users are going to be younger, and most of them won't be familiar with 1990's interface design but rather Windows XP and Vista. The operating system should look visually attractive to draw new users and develop brand loyalty. Kids love "modern-looking" stuff, and if Windows looks better, they'll go for it instead. Most Windows sales are made pre-packaged with new systems, so we have to be more convincing to draw users to switch. If we, intentionally or unintentionally, restrict ourselves to the techie/open-source set, we risk winding up in the same niche status as Linux or BSD.
That being said, I don't ramble on it much because the GUI is just one part of the operating system, and the core of the system should be up and running before we worry about its face. Once we reach a state where ReactOS is stable enough for everyday use, then those of us who are interested in changing the interface can organize and do it ourselves. I have trouble imagining that all of the developers are so dead-set against developing an alternate GUI for ReactOS that we couldn't get one or two to help. Remember, this is open-source, so if there's something about ReactOS that we don't like, we can always tweak it towards our own preferences. How many distros of Linux are there right now? Everybody's bickering over this like there's only going to be ReactOS and nobody else will be able to change it.
Another thing to remember is that the current GUI is scheduled to be replaced, so before we discuss changing the GUI we should have the new one up and running. It would be pointless to modify the current GUI just for it to be replaced when ReactOS is more stable.
Trying to pressure the developers to change the interface when they have their hands full with the kernel is probably isn't taking into account the sheer amount of effort that's necessary to get ReactOS running. I've been keeping track of this project since 2006 or so, and when I try a new version I'm not checking how well the visuals look (the same, always), I'm testing software compatibility and how much I can do with the system before it crashes. The more usable ReactOS is the more I can tell progress is being made, but if I'm a computer novice I wouldn't know to look for that, and all I'd see is a primitive-looking desktop. Since I toy around with older hardware and have some familiarity with computers I understand the memory benefits of sticking to a simpler interface. However, for my own personal use I would use something a little "warmer" than what we're using right now. To my experience eye candy is more attractive to novice users than techies, so I guess you could say it's a bit of a cultural difference, in terms of computer use, between developers and beginning users we need to sort out. I'm not sure if folks are trying to view this issue from the other side's perspective.
I hope that isn't too much to read.
